An engagement ring is one of the most important symbols in a couple's life. The question that almost always arises is: which finger should it be worn on? The answer is ambiguous, as much depends on the country, traditions, and family customs.
Polish tradition – the right hand
In Poland, the engagement ring is most often worn on the ring finger of the right hand . This gesture is rooted in ancient tradition and culture. After the wedding, many couples leave the ring there, next to the wedding band, creating a symbolic connection.
Western countries - left hand
In the US, Great Britain, France, and Italy, a different custom prevails – the ring is worn on the left hand . It was once believed that this finger was where the "vena amoris"—the vein of love—leads directly to the heart. Although this is an anatomical myth, it remains a beautiful tradition to this day.
Other customs around the world
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Germany, Austria, Russia – just like in Poland, the engagement ring is worn on the right hand.
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Spain and Latin America – the ring is sometimes worn on the right hand, but after the wedding it is often moved to the left.
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Scandinavia – in some countries, both engaged couples wear engagement rings, sometimes in different configurations.
What after the wedding?
In Poland , the wedding band and engagement ring are most often worn together – both on the right hand. In the West, it's the other way around: the wedding band is closer to the hand, and the engagement ring is worn above it, on the same left hand.
One ring – many traditions
Ultimately, there's no single right answer. The most important thing is that an engagement ring be a symbol of love and joy—regardless of which hand it's worn on.
